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The Gift-Giving Season

Christmas is the gift-giving season.  There is a lot of emphasis to buy gifts for other people.  Not only are you expected to buy a gift, but there is a lot of pressure to buy the right gift.

If a gift is an expression of your love, adoration and appreciation, does it matter what gift you give?  Yes… and no.

A gift will communicate your feelings if it has special meaning to the recipient.  The best gifts are those that are unique to the person receiving them.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be expensive or extravagant.  Sometimes a simple or hand-made gift can communicate your feelings much more than something that costs a lot of money.  Therefore, the right gift is the one that has signficant meaning rather than a high price tag.

This is an important principle to remember when purchasing gifts, especially for Christmas.  Our culture places a tremendous value upon the type of gifts you give.  Love, appreciation, and status are often measured by the gifts you purchase.  Consequently, there is a lot of pressure to overspend at Christmas, especially by parents.  You may want your children to have a memorable Christmas; or you want them to have a better life than you did; or worse, you’re trying to buy their affection by lavishing them with gifts.

There is nothing wrong with giving your children many things or showering them with gifts, but there is a problem if you’re buying gifts you can’t afford.  Far better for you to find less expensive but more meaningful gifts, than try to create an extravagant Christmas that takes months or years to pay off.  

Gifts rarely make lasting impressions and memories.  Sure there may be one or two gifts you’ll remember forever, but most of them are quickly forgotten or replaced.  Also, the more someone has, the less likely that any one thing has much meaning.  Upon reflection, I can only think of very few gifts I received at Christmas that really helped define a great Christmas.  My best memories are family traditions and spending time with people.  I may be a little unique in this regard, but I doubt it.

Christmas is a season of giving.  It’s good to give presents and material items, if given with the right heart and for the right reason.  The appropriate gift can communicate your love, adoration, appreciation and respect for another person.  At the same time, make sure that you can afford what you’re buying.  Feelings of regret and animosity can easily replace love and affection when you buy things you can’t afford.  Besides… it’s a foolish financial decision.

Giving gifts is an important part of Christmas, but there are more important things than material gifts.  The gift of love, time and traditions will probably make much more of an impact on your family and friends than the things you buy.  You may find that the best gifts don’t cost much.

Christmas is the gift-giving season.  Bless others with your generosity and gifts… both those that cost money and those that money can’t buy.

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